What's Wrong With Steve?

VINTAGE WWWS

Dear Steve,

My friend and I both have blind dates coming up.  We realize you’re married now but wondered if you could harken back to your single days to offer us some advice:  How did you overcome first date jitters?  Oh, and how far did you expect to get on a first date?

Just wondering,

Sabrina and Kelly

Sabrina and Kelly

I am not sure which way to go with this question.  I am a little concerned because I don’t know how old you ladies are, and therefore I am hesitant to answer in my usual free-wheeling, damn the torpedoes manner.

But…. what the hell – here goes!

I never experienced the so called “first date jitters”, simply because I always refused to acknowledge that the social situation in question was in fact, a date.  I preferred to say simply, “We’re just hanging out.”  That alone removed a tremendous amount of pressure.  I was then free to be me – to try to be as funny as possible, rendering the woman incapable of resisting my charms.

On a good night, this usually led to sex.  On a bad night, when I couldn’t quite get on a roll, I didn’t stress out over it because, as I already said, “We were just hanging out.” Of course, those nights usually led to sex also, but without as much hootin’and hollerin’.  C’est la vie.

I guess that answers both of your questions, come to think of it.  Good luck!!

SG

Dear Steve

Will you marry me?  I have a tongue ring.

K.S.

K.S.

Not only will I marry you, my darling, but I will spend each and every moment for the rest of my up until now meaningless life trying to give you the happiest, most carefree, uplifting, challenging, spiritually enlightening, exciting, and of course, infection free existence that you and that tongue ring of yours could ever possibly imagine!

And that is just for starters.  Once we get rolling, why we’ll…wait, hold on a second…my wife says no.

SG

Steve,

I loved your version of “I Wanna Be Your Man”.  What are your impressions of Ringo’s drumming?  Or just the Beatles overall?

Steve

Steve

My impressions of Ringo’s drumming can be heard regularly at sound check.  He is the sole reason I wanted to play drums in the first place and the Beatles are without question my favorite band of all time and the primary reason that I love rock and roll.

So, you know, no big deal.

SG

Dear Steve,

Where ya been??!?

Thank you, in advance, for your timely response.

Best,

Jill

Jill

Much like Johnny Cash, I’ve been everywhere, man, I’ve been everywhere.

I can’t guarantee that I won’t forget a town or two, and I might get a few out of order – but to the best of my recollection – since 1990 I’ve been to Los Angeles, Anaheim, Ventura, Tijuana, Las Vegas, Phoenix, Dallas, Austin, San Antonio, Houston, Murfreesboro, Atlanta, Charlotte, Raleigh, Hickory, Norfolk, Saratoga Springs, Baltimore, Washington DC, NYC, Syracuse, Providence, Brooklyn, Boston, Portland, Toronto, Cleveland, Roseville, Chicago, Minneapolis, Denver, Salt Lake City, Oakland, West Hollywood, Columbus, Cleveland, Toronto, Cambridge, Pittsburgh, Allentown, Poughkeepsie, New Haven, Portland, Boston, NYC, Baltimore, Philadelphia, Raleigh, Boone, Savannah, Orlando, Ft. 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Why do you ask?

SG

Steve,

I recently purchased a 22″ A custom ping ride. Sounds killer.  Thank you for the inspiration. I was wondering if and how you muffle your ride cymbal. Do you just leave the cymbal stock? Lay some duct

tape on it? A moongel on the bottom? Thanks and looking forward to the next SF fillmore run.

Brian

Brian

I unwrap it, place it on a cymbal stand, and start smacking it with a drum stick.  If I don’t like the sound, I hit it harder.  Works every time.

Don’t over think this stuff, man.

Your sound is your sound.

Let the cymbal be the cymbal.

You know….all that zen bullshit.

SG

Steve,

My question is simple. When will we see the Black Crowes back in Australia?

JC

JC

Just as soon as we get there, my man.  Honest!

SG

Dear Steve,

Love the Crowes, and really enjoy the wit and wisdom of WWWS.

I have, however, a two-part question of global, some might even claim biblical, proportions.

1) If any other player but Thierry Henry touches the ball does the ref call the French side for a handball?

2) What punishment will the football gods deliver unto said French national team…plagues…boils…a loss to South Africa…another Bush in the White House?

I know, these are weighty questions. But if any drummer in the world has the answers, its you!

Thanks in advance,

Roger

Roger

Thank you for your support of both the band’s music and of my higher calling.

Weighty questions indeed, but as I have spent the last few months in deep contemplation of this incident, I have no trouble offering my thoughts.

1)  No.  Henry wasn’t given preferential treatment.  The referee was obviously incapable of calling such an important match loaded with so many international implications.  Henry, or anyone else, could have dribbled it like a basketball and the ref wouldn’t have made the call.  (Oh wait, he actually did dribble it like a basketball… okay, well, point proven.)  Anyway, the ref found himself out of position at clutch time and that is unforgivable in such a crucial match.

2)  The Football Gods will deliver no punishment unto said French National Team, as no punishment is due.  Players play, and refs ref.  Again, this was a ref’s mistake, not a player’s mistake.

However, I believe you are on the right track with your question – you just have the wrong team in mind.

The question isn’t  “what will the Football Gods do to punish the French?” – it’s “what did the Irish do to receive such punishment from the Football Gods?”

Obviously, the Irish are guilty of some prior, unimaginably horrible crime against the beautiful game and this Henry handball incident was simply justice being brutally served in heart breaking fashion.  (What could this crime be, you ask?  Who knows?  The invention of and overwhelming passion for Gaelic Football, perhaps?  Hurling?  No idea – your guess is as good as mine.)

Now, I know some people will be greatly offended by this theory.  Hell, I love a Guinness as much as the next guy and  I happen to be of just under 100% Irish heritage, so it’s not easy to say these things.  History shows, however, than whenever the opportunity arises, it’s best to play it safe and BLAME THE IRISH.  Don’t mess with this stuff, Roger.  It’s serious business.  Just to cover your bases, you might want to wager on the French this summer.  I’m just sayin’.

SG

Dear Steve,

I am a huge Black Crowes’ fan. I have seen the band over 50 times and also have had the pleasure to meet you once. When I did meet you I told you I was a drummer and that I enjoyed your drum parts, and you replied, “Why, because they’re easy?“

Anyway, my question/problem: I’m getting married on October 23rd and cannot convince my fiancee’ to have a Black Crowes’ song as our wedding song. My first attempt was, “The Last Place that Love Hides”, as out 1st dance; I told her that anger will never get rid of our love and that love is behind her eyes, but she looked at me like I was crazy.

So far, I think she’ll agree to “Remedy” being played when they introduce the wedding party, but I might have to wear a tutu on our honeymoon for that one.

Anyway, can you suggest a great wedding song for our first dance? Or can you help me convince her of what a great tune, “Love Hides” would be? She even denied, “Here, There, and Everywhere” by The Beatles. If not I’m stuck with, “I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing.”

Sincerely,

Deano the Drummer

Deano

You should have written before blowing your first (and best) shot on “The Last Place That Love Hides”.  You probably won’t have another chance to run that one up the flagpole now.

For starters, I could have informed you that the song is, in fact, called “The Last Place That Love Lives”. I don’t know if this minor detail would have helped, but I have to think that when describing the love upon which you are building a life together,  living beats hiding.

Even with the proper title in place, though, I am siding with your bride to be on this one.  There’s no good reason for you guys to dance to a sad and slow, albeit beautiful, dirge about a bizarre, hermitic woman with a fondness for shhhushing people who’s holed up in a mountain compound behind iron doors the size of grain silos as you are entering your new lives as husband and wife.

That’s not to say you should go with “I Don’t Want To Miss a Thing”, either.  I am sure we’ve all heard that song more than we ever needed to in the first place.  (Meaning, more than once.)

If I were you, I’d go in an entirely different direction, Deano.

Al Green, Marvin Gaye, Otis Redding….these men recorded dozens of slow, romantic tunes for the simple reason that husbands and wives always have to do that first dance and they are usually a little self conscious.  A grooving backbeat in straight time (very important to the average, rhythmically challenged couple) underneath timeless lyrics of love and respect sung with more soul than any current R&B singer could ever hope to summon in a lifetime?  Man, that’s wedding dance gold!

You give up the Crowes, she drops Aerosmith, you both dance down the tracks of the soul train- and you’ll thank me in the end.

To which, of course,  I’ll simply reply, “you’re welcome, Deano”.

SG